Primadonna Girl

I've been listening to a lot of music lately. One of my favorites has been Marina & The Diamonds. I think I heard another one of her songs a few months ago. Her music is almost ironic in how she sees the world.

I love the video.



Primadonna girl, yeah
All I ever wanted was the world
I can't help that I need it all
The primadonna life, the rise and fall
You say that I'm kinda difficult
But it's always someone else's fault
Got you wrapped around my finger, babe
You can count on me to misbehave

Primadonna girl,
Would you do anything for me?
Buy a big diamond ring for me?
Would you get down on your knees for me?
Pop the pretty question right now, baby
Beauty queen on a silver screen
Living life like I'm in a dream
I know I've got a big ego
I really don't know why it's such a big deal, though

(Ooh) And I'm sad to the core, core, core
(Yeah) Every day is a chore, chore, chore
(Wow) When you give, I want more, more, more
I wanna be adored
'Cause I'm a primadonna girl, yeah
All I ever wanted was the world
I can't help that I need it all
The primadonna life, the rise and fall
You say that I'm kinda difficult
But it's always someone else's fault
Got you wrapped around my finger, babe
You can count on me to misbehave

Primadonna girl fill the void up with Celluloid
Take a picture, I'm with the boys
Get what I want 'cause I ask for it
Not because I'm really that deserving of it
Living life like I'm in a play
In the lime light, I want to stay
I know I've got a big ego
I really don't know why it's such a big deal, though

(Ooh) Going up, going down, down, down
(Yeah) Anything for the crown, crown, crown
(Wow) With the lights dimming down, down, down
I spin around

'Cause I'm a primadonna girl, yeah
All I ever wanted was the world
I can't help that I need it all
The primadonna life, the rise and fall
You say that I'm kinda difficult
But it's always someone else's fault
Got you wrapped around my finger, babe
You can count on me to misbehave

Primadonna girl, yeah
All I ever wanted was the world
I can't help that I need it all
The primadonna life, the rise and fall
You say that I'm kinda difficult
But it's always someone else's fault
Got you wrapped around my finger, babe
You can count on me to misbehave
Primadonna girl

May the odds be ever in your favor

I'm about to get my write on old school Abby style..you heard? EH...um..no..

What up party people? Hope you all are out enjoying the last few weeks of fun in the sun time.  It rained here a lot this summer. Bummer, bummer, who got the hummer? Lude, crude, and with an attitude? I don't know. Do you? No? Ok then.

So the family is a bit different. We finally got the brother we ask for in the form of a pickle. Yes, sadly my mom brought a pickle home the other day and said it was our brother. I cried real tears out of my seeing eyes. I was just beside myself with grief.  Stevi/Becca and Veri/Bri were fine cause they dressed the pickle up like Ken and played barbies with him. I thought how could she! I wanted a real brother...not a sweet pickle!!

No, I do have a real brother now. His name is Dylan. We call him Dyl and sometimes I call him a pickle. Get it now? No? Me either. I'm going to write about Dylan's big and when I get back on line and if he doesn't want everybody and THEIR brother to know about it. Then I will be erasing all this. Rod is Dylan's big. Keira is Rod's wife. Gabby is Keira and Dylan's girlfriend. She is awesome and I am on the Pom's team with her at Edgewood Prep where I go now. I like it. It is fun. So anyways they have a really sweet kid named Sundey. She calls me Aunt Abby. I mean come on that has to make you melt.

Here is a picture I took of us going to homecoming. 

Another thing in my family world is that I'm looking for is a dad. Since I don't got one anymore  sorta said that all gangsta like in my head. I guess it would be spelled like. Seense IIIII don'T gotz won IN E MO What can I say I'm a Thug. Holla at cha gurl


But yea, I go to Edgewood Preparatory School. Ms. C's the owner and Principal. She's has done things really well and I'm excited to go back for the second semester. I'm on student council and poms team. I'd have to say that creative writing was my favorite class last semester. She really taught me a lot about writing. Don't judge her for this blog. This is my sunshine monster.

Edgewood website

 Sachy taught at Edgewood last semester as the fashion design teacher. I really learned a lot from him. Especially some things on gimp.  You know something I realized about Sachy. He's smart. Truly smart. Whatever he puts his mind to, he can do it. Sachy's store is doing really good lately. He keeps spinning out some really nice clothing items. Puts me in some of his vendor pics. Which I think is sweet

This is a picture I did in sachy's snake skin bikini's. 

Some things in my room here. That trophy was won by yours truly for showing the run way who is boss! ok..no. maybe it was for my knife throwing skillz.  Let's see, oh here is my Spock Matryoshka doll. It doesn't open or have smaller and smaller dolls in it. But I did get it in a yard sale in sl and it is Spock. You know in real life..which I talk very little about here. . I had and still have it. A spock journal my friend stacy gave me when we were fifteen years old. This was when liking star trek wasn't cool. Wait... I guess it's never been cool. GOOD!. Oh and the art on the wall there. That's some kind of punk rock bird in need of a bra, eating some bacon on valentines day is all.

Oh look someone took a pic of some of the members of the brb gang.

Someone is always brbing in the gang. And you know what we do when you brb..we give you a mustache and a boiler hat. Ok maybe we don't! but we shooould!

I decided to make my blog pink since I blogged a few things for the Pink Ribbon Fair. Check it out here

I knew the moment I seen this Zibska Hat and Collar full of roses what I was going to do with it. Transform myself into Effie Trinket from the Hunger Games.

La Vie En, hat and collar is  their exclusive item for the Pink Ribbon Fair.
100% of proceeds of the La Vie En set automatically donated to the fundraiser.
Plus,  Full texture change version to be released after the event, those purchasing at the fair will automatically get the full version upon release.

Hair: LeLutka  SALOME in Powder
Nails: Sexy Mama you can get them on the MP. Get all the sets!
Coat: Doppelganger Bridget in Fuchsia

Flamingo, no you didn't!

I've been making Sachy's platform a mess lately with boxes from the Pink Ribbon Fair. Over at the fair there are pink roofed huts laid out in a curving pattern on top of some beautiful  blue water. If you haven't tped over, you should check it out.    EVENT INFO

Now gals, if you love your boobs as good as I love mine. You will take some time to fondle them in the shower or laying on your bed. Just make sure you do it once a month for about fifteen minutes.  I do mine in the shower on the day my rent is due. Easy to remember that way. :)

Clothing

Shirt: :::LP::: Primal Eyes (Flamingo) Sweater ( mesh)  (Pink Ribbon Fair)

Pants: [ SAKIDE ] (mesh) Linen Harem Pants Pink1 (Pink Ribbon Fair)

Body

Hair: Lamb  Ruby (Mesh) - Milkshake

Pose

 Just one I made

Pink Ribbon Fair

Is this pink enough for you! LOL. Can you guess what I'm going to blog about? You got that right! BOOBS! Well not exactly boobs but how you need to keep those boobs of yours and the ones you loves boobs safe. Here is a website that tells you how to give a self exam. Early detection can save lives. Self Exam

The Pink Ribbon Fair is in collaboration with Relay For Life to raise awareness and money for breast cancer. They have an official website here Pink Ribbon Fair

Fair starts August 4th to the 25th.

I wanted the first post to be so pink I even wore a pink skin.

Clothes

Swimsuit: Strip'd  Bikini (Pink Ribbon Fair)

Body

Feet: Slink  Bare feet Mesh
Nails: *Sexy Mamas*
Face Tattoo: White~Widow  (Pink Ribbon Fair)
Eyes: Mayfly - Persian Pink
Skin: [MC] Rose  (Pink Ribbon Fair)
Hair: [MC] Light Pink (Pink Ribbon Fair)

The Curious Case of Mr. and Mrs. Button

For good or bad my sl family has been changing lately. It breaks my heart that Miketh isn't in our family anymore. The space you left will never truly ever be filled. 

Ethan my little brother may have decided that the time zone difference was to much. We haven't seen him on in a good bit. Here is a picture I took of him and the dino I got him.

I had no idea it was so big. Nor did I know it could eat twenty eight pb & j's in one sitting. Thank god Mom is a huge fan of peanut butter.

Some great news though. Two very special gals have came into my life that I adore. Bri and Stevi. They fit so well and are both very goodhearted, funny, unique individuals, that light up my day. I call them my sisters. They are twin seven year olds with tons of spunk and creativity. I know all of us in the family feel pretty blessed to have them in our lives.

We are now known as the Everdeen family. Based on the surname of the lead character and her family from the Hunger Game books.

I just recently read all three books. I won't give spoilers but I will say it was the first time I threw a book. I wanted to go all Annie Wilkie on Suzanne Collins' ass. Instead I cried so hard  that I felt stupid.

Both girls are great at taking pictures and own stores on their bigs (adult avatars)

Veri/Bri owns the wonderful pose store Mood Swings.  Mood Swings TP

Veri did this amazing pose and photo of me and my fella Sachy.

Steph/Stevi makes some beautiful shapes and jewelry at her store called Trinkets shapes n' such TP here.

Here is a picture Stevi did of the Everdeen girls.

 Cady my Moma had a real life birthday recently. Sachy built her a karaoke stage and I hired Maximillion Kleene to come serenade her. The girls bought her an amazing cake and moms friends and family came to celebrate her day. Thank you all for coming and making that day special for her. She really deserves it. I love her so good.

                                   

Lets talk about my boyfriend. The one and only Sachy. He is the cutest sweetest most awesomeness guy ever. We hit a rough patch there for a second and I just knew in my heart it was over. I was ready to chalk it up to another failed attempt by yours truly. It was him that messaged me asking what were we doing. He wanted to know if I was as unhappy as he was not talking to each other. I was.  I think the thought of us not being in a relationship anymore made us both realize how much we really loved each other. Every day I wake up I think about him. We have so much fun together. We are so mad and deep with this.... it takes my air away.

 

He also takes some really great pictures. Here is his version of some of the family together.

 

I know we are all trying to get our bearings about us since Miketh left . Each of us trying to be strong for the others. I just want all of us to be ok. Whether your in the family now or not.

What I say in my blog is just my prospective of things and not the end all nor be all of anything.

Speaking of blogs

Sometimes I wish there was a reset button for all the blogging community of secondlife. I've been noticing lately how the sl bloggers aren't a community at all. You have people who think there is this one way to blog due to their successful blogs. Then you have people who whine because they want to be successful like them. Then you have all of us in the middle. There is a gray area of bloggers who give no fucks.  I really just write my blog for myself.  It lets me go down memory lane and remember those times easier. The thing is. I don't expect anyone to understand me or accept me or follow my lead. I encourage people to find their own way with it. Who cares how you blog. It's just a blog. How can anyone be having this discussion about it. It's laughable. If you zoomed out and looked at the big picture. Some sl people are successful in part because they found secondlife earlier than others. Honestly what does it really mean to have been on secondlife longer than other people. Think about that. It means nothing. I am not seriously going to show a sign of respect because you've been on secondlife for more years than me.  I  know there are some slers who whine about their blogs not getting enough hits. Maybe it comes in time. Maybe your blog isn't what people like.

I'm not really a fashion blogger. I dip a toe in it here and there. My blog is my sl journal for the most part. Maybe a scrapbook even. I once had a girl IM me saying. " So you blog's about what goes on in your sl life?" I responded "Yea pretty dorky huh?" and she agreed. In turn that made me laugh.

So a reset button would be great. But it's not practical. I can only really speak for myself. If you don't like my blog. Don't read it. Or read it and roll your eyes. I just want you to know. I don't care. If reading my blog makes you smile and you want to IM me. Your always going to put a smile on my face. And I'm probably going to try and make friends with you.

Plurk is the place that I see a lot of the complaining of things that go on in the blogging community. I try and weed out people that only whine or people that are so catty it makes my eye twitch. I am a horrible plurker. I would rather reply/read to other plurks.I get having a bad day or week or month. Some of you are so up and down in a day I worry you might be manic depressive.

What's on the horizon for Abernathy Everdeen? Just chillin. Swimming. Hanging out. Summer is here people. Get happy!

Absy Absy out

Why?

I went to school today, but the  only thing really on my mind is why. What's shocking about this happy bright picture? That inside there are no smiles. Just sad emo girl questions.

Why am I a hopeless romantic?
Why do things never last?
Why does it hurt so much?

Everyone and their brother have asked me about this dress. It's pretty happy and sunny. I figure maybe if I look happy maybe.....eh screw it...this is the end of this blog post.

Oh yea the style card.

What you can get at Culture Shock
Map to Culture Shock

Dress: Koketka-Strips dress (yellow)  MESH
Necklace: (AMD) Eccentric Pencil Necklace
Ring: LaGyo Cube bronze

Other stuff

Hair: !lamb. Blush (Mesh) - Honeycomb Root
Shoes: duboo.otaku flat shoes *beige* ( I think these were from a hunt or gift)

If you want to learn more about Culture Shock Read this

Without a Stitch

The first moment that  I saw the Finesmith necklace. I envisioned this picture. What's "shocking" in this post? Well if I have to tell ya, then you're blind.

Today the Culture Shock Event opens.  I hope I helped in some way to get people excited about going and spending their linden for a good cause.  Check out  more information here concerning the event  Culture Shock


Necklace and Skin both are at the event

Necklace: Finesmith
Skin: [Iren]-Idhaya
Pose: Olive Juice

M♥ns

Like I said in a previous post. I'm pretty happy with everything the store Mon's produces. I sorta thought I had heard of it just at the Culture Shock event ( Click here to learn more about  Culture Shock ) but then I typed it in my inventory and realized that one of my favorite shirts and some mesh overalls I have are from there. Here is a url to their main store. MONS

The shocking thing about this look. I'm "dressed up".  It's not like I don't dress up. I just usually don't do style cards in dresses. This dress could be dressed down easily with the Mon Tissu Porter Jean Jacket and some cute wedges.

I imagine I'm at a wedding as someone's plus one. My date and I are out on the grounds during the reception. He's chasing me around the yard and our laughter gets a little too loud. Some very posh woman hushes us loudly and I put my hand to my face to quiet myself.

What you can get at the culture event

Pose: Magnifique
Eyeshadow: MONS  -  smoke purple
Ring: LaGyo_Cube bronze
Dress: MONS [Summer Love Collection] Vintage LongDress  white
Necklace: [ glow ] studio - Crosses Necklace (gold)


Other stuff

Hair: !lamb. Blush (Mesh) - Honeycomb Root
Nails: *Sexy Mamas* Prim Nails (marketplace)
Pump: : PM :: Lacein White
Bracelet: Willow~ Birds of a Feather Bracelet - Gold

Internet Killed the Video Star

 I wanted to blog another look with pieces from Culture Shock. Details here Culture Shock

I've been watching music video's on tv all morning.

Each look I've decided to do something "shocking"
The shocking things about this post?
1. I've managed to make "to much" patterns "work"
2. The fact I have this many old tv's. ( someone please call hoarders)
3. I remembered to credit the posemaker

What you can find at Culture Shock

Shirt: Levi Baseball Tee Blk
Bracelet: MONS[Summer Love Collection]  Black
Bracelet: MONS[Summer Love Collection] Clamp  Black
Ring: LaGyo Cube ring bronze
Pants: :OW: "MiSH"  Mesh JeansXD Neon Aqua S
Bag: BE; LEMONTASTIC purse
Pose: oOo - Framwork


The other stuff

Shoes: +mocha+  -  Trad Style of Japan
Nails: *Sexy Mamas* (marketplace)
Necklace: DECO - MESH Shells of War
Hair: LaViere The Vert/MintChocolate
Watch: MIEL BFF TICKER - bright
Belt: Reek -  Heart Stripes
Sunglasses: Reek - Park Shades

Because Civilization Breakdown wasn't as catchy.

Like many bloggers I was asked to come check out the Culture Shock Event.  Details here, Culture Shock

What I personally loved about going to the event was the lack of other people. Since it doesn't officially open till the 4th.

I want to point out some stores that really stuck out for me at the event.

LaGyo has a ring called the cube ring. It's one of those sl things you hope you can find in rl. You should defiantly get it. It's color change and goes with everything.

Mon's has to be my new favorite. I can't decide which I love better the make-up, jewelry, or the clothing. Be sure to go by there.
 

What you can get at Culture Shock

Eyeshadow: MONS / Makeups -  smoke purple
Ring: LaGyo Cube  bronze
Bracelet: MONS[Summer Love Collection] Cuff Bronze
Skorkt?: Ricielli Mesh -  Summer Minishorts //leopard
Necklace: [ glow ] studio - Crosses (gold)
Shirt: [Ill] Illusory - Loose Fit Tank - Coal

Other stuff

Hair: !lamb. Little Queenie (Mesh) - Honeycomb Ombre
Pumps: ISON - color block prism  (purple)
Ring: (epoque.s) Amen Knuckle  - Gold // femme
Nails: *Sexy Mamas*(marketplace)

I decided to make each look I blog for the event to have a little shock value. This one. My shoes don't "match". :D

I also wanted to highlight these shorts or skirt or skort that I have one by Ricielli.  There is a lot of different patterns to choose from. Truly something for everyone.

100 word Sachy 0's

Sachy loves the marshmallows in his cereal.  When I say his cereal I mean really his cereal. Sachy O's. The cereal the cool kids eat. Luck was on his side for st. patty's day when Mom found him a website where all they sale is the marshmallows. Check it out here. The whole site is funny. Especially the YouTube videos.

                                             "Open up!"

Sachy and I worked on the robits weekly challenge. Topic this week was "I don't know" You can listen to our story and many others Here. You should try your hand at one as well. Go here to find out more details.  Also thank you Crap for writing about my blog in your blog. )) < > (( Having you as my mentor in SL has been interesting to say the least. I wouldn't have it any other way.

As always thank you Mom and Sachy for helping with the shoot. Pretty fail though that it took three of us to make one bowl of cereal. 

                                               We might not have much, but we got a bowl of

                                                    cereal, creativity, and each other. :D

                                                I love you Sachy.

Log Date- Day 3354 - Year 2154

The drippings noise from the roof is soothing.  Still, I will fix it  tomorrow, before the third shift in the night sky. Chitting the herbaceous fetuses has kept myself busy. I'm thankful for my helper Pox. She sings a sweet song in her native tongue to calm the baby sunflowers. She also waters the mother tree with the red river daily.  The mother's breast becomes engorged every other day now. I feed the fetuses her milk. I would drink it myself if it didn't make me violently ill. That mistake will never be made again.

It is the anniversary of Trams death. He was the last of the injured.  He and I were alone for two years before the second colony came. Without him the first year I would have been lost. Now there is just me. And Pox. I am fine with that. People only die and leave you with their memory burned into your eyes.

*click here for larger image *

What I'm wearing

CLOTHING
Shirt: [*SG*] KARA  - Tee/ Paint Printed
Overalls:[monso] My Overall
Boots: ::Duh!:: Engineer Boots Black

BODY

Hair: .: vive nine :. BangedUp Braid in Brunne
Eyes: Mayfly  Deep Sky Mesh Eye
Dirt:  dirt all over 2.0 on marketplace

ACCESSORIES

Glasses: Deco MESH Atomic Sunglasses

Build Deco Green House

I love getting together with people and seeing my visions come to life. Thank you Mom (Cady) Hempy, and Sachy♥ for helping me put this together. And thank you DECO!!!!! I love the greenhouse and have always wanted to use it.

Side note

Sachy and I are doing so great. I love him so good. He's given me a nickname Poptart Princess. :)
School closed. So no more OSHS or OSE. I was really liking my classes. So boo to that!
I've been getting more voice gigs in sl. It's a real fun experience.
And I've changed my look.

Introducing Abernathy Button @ 17

Ok thats it. Short and sweet for now.

Absy Absy Out!

I can hear Jazz Hands

Welcome dear friends to another installment of Cute as a Button. (screeching noise) Oh dear, where are you? (Watches you look around a bit scared) It's ok. Just some small changes. Till further notice this blog is not so cute. My sl hit a weird place due to some factors.

Those Factors were:

Second life Parents breaking up.
Sachy leaving the family
I'm going through this should I grow up or stay a second life teen.

So, at the moment I feel like I'm suspended in air looking down. The goal was to work out some issues and grow up. The when is still not known.

Cady and Mike love me like I'm their own. Ask anyone that knows us. There is even a running joke that Dad (Mike) actually birthed me...out his butt. Making me (hardy har har) his butt baby. 

These two people helped me feel comfortable enough to just be who I am without limits. With all my quirky and odd missteps. I'll be forever grateful to them and to second life for that.

And to all the people that say second life families are creepy.
 1. Well...Go Fuck Yourself. :)
 2. You are so right dude.

So, I am staying a teen. Seventeen to be exact.  I started Ocean Side High School. I've got a dorm there but I also have a bedroom at Mom's house. Speaking of Mom's house. We live on the same sim as mom's mom and mom's moms mom..(did that make sense?)  I love the land and the house. Wait. Have I mentioned my Meme?

Meme ( sl name Gigi)  is my moma's moma. She's southern like me. :) She is the best grandmother to all of us kids. I think it's safe to say Rune, Mom, and Saphy also think she is an awesome Mom.


There came a point where a shift happened with Sachy. I think back at this one time where he jokingly told me he had a crush on me. I was teasing him about it...cause I didn't think it was true. Once my parents broke up, Sachy and I didn't know if we were going to be kids of divorced parents. We both went back and forth on what we wanted to do. There was talks of leaving the family all together. Growing up was majorly discussed. I know that I wanted to be there for Mom but it just wasn't happening. I was just plain out...pissed off.

It seems like things are going good with Dad and Mom by the way. They are dating at the moment. Taking things slow.

So that left Sachy and I to look long and hard as to what we meant to each other.  When you choose your family in sl it's more or less people you really love spending time with. People you mesh with. Sometimes feelings develop and you have to stop being family.

We are trying to find our place in each others lives. God we fight. So bad. We make up just as hard. Not sure I've ever known someone like Sachy. I'd say he would say the same about me.

Along came Will.

Will is a second life football player for the Bucs and is co owner of Gameshack with Sachy and Gunner. Will is coming off a bad break up and he is just trying to have fun and be chill. He's single girls and one of the nicest guys I know. Oh and the Bucs won their last game and that means they will be going to the Superbowl with the Redskins. I really want to go to the Superbowl but it conflicts with somewhere I would rather be. Auntie Saphy's and Uncle Tai's wedding. :D :D :D :D :D :D Will is so sweet. He totally understands.

He and  I went to Pixel Prom together. It was so much fun. There was so many people there. I swear I think it should have been called Plurk Prom.

Will and I Prom Photo. 

 I did Will's new Profile Picture

Speaking of Profile Pictures I've done. Here is one I did for Uncle Lucky and Auntie Pink

GO 51

I like to make signs when I go to games. I made one for Dad's game too. Dad's team, the Panthers really made a comeback this year after a rocky start. We are super proud of number 8. :D

Sad there won't be a Panther's team next year.

Will and I went to his friends wedding this weekend and to a Mardi Gras party where he won bes Mari Gras costume male.

He has this really great hug hud. This is my favorite pose.

Gameshack is going good. There was a in-promptue Karaoke night.  I was tped to Watershead by my new friend California. A bunch of people tped in at the same time. They all decided collectively after pushing each other around and calling each other faggots and heffers that they wanted to go to karaoke. I spoke up and mentioned the GameShake had Karaoke. So we all went there. It was chaos but lots of fun.

AberMatchy is going good. Building a decent database. I received a NC a few days ago asking if I would peripatetic in an event with a club. We are working out the details this week.

If you are single or anyone you know that is please feel free to direct them to my Matchmaking website AberMatchy. 

Speaking of receiving a NC and gameshack. I met a girl the other day at the Gameshack. She had on some clothing from a store I love, so we struck up a conversation. A few days later she sent me a NC from her while I was offline. It took me back a little. I wanted to share it with you.

 Hey, so im not sure what prompted me to write this but here goes:

 When we met, we instantly talked of fashion, our love for paperbag and imbue). Im a profile stalker, so I stalked your profile, and seen you blogged. I read a few entries then put it off, and decided to read some more today, and I must say: for about the past 2 hours, ive done nothing but sit here and read every entry LOL.
It kinda made me sad. I never did the SL high school thing, and its hard for me to meet guys on here to date. I also havent had a small close group of girlfriends in about two years. I had a group of about 5 of us, but drama happened, and it was a mess. Since then I stopped talking to everyone! I cleared my friend's list and now, its hard for me to meet people. Ive thought of going to SL football games, clubs and such but im too shy to come outright and meet people. I am almost sure I might apply to a sorority.
 Im not sure why I am telling you all of this, but maybe its because I could relate so much to your blog. I am currently seeking a family, although I have a mom, shes rarely on SL, and is more of a friend then a mom figure. I want siblings and a dad and all that fun stuff. I want to act crazy with people who care about me.
But yeah, this got super long, im not even sure the purpose. I enjoyed your blog, and I relate, I even cried at some parts D:
Sorry im a dork and random :P

 

That totally made my day. I wrote her back saying the typical thank you but I hope she messages me and wants to hang out. I'm always down for new friends of any kind.

BUT..when it comes to Plurk friends..um

I know I deleted a lot of people off my TL on Plurk.

I just feel like my plurk should be the precursor of new friendships in second life. If we don't click or you make my eye twitch. I'm not going to unfollow you. I'm going to delete you. It's really that simple.

Now for some Fashion Zef style as always.

CLOTHING

Skirt: {SMS} So Many Styles Leopard High Waist Skirt Khaki
Tank: -paper.doll- GraphicTank: BornToBeWild (JacketLayer)
Boots: [ h ] Hooreenbeek Lucille



BODY

Hait: RAW HOUSE :: Khaos
Eyes: Mayfly - Deep Sky Mesh Eye (Sea Green)
Nails: *Sexy Mamas* Prim Nail
Eyeliner: VCD V A Y A    C O N    D I O S- Express Yourself - Eyeliner Unisex - Soft
hairbase: DeeTaleZ shaved flowery blonde
Lipstick: :Heartstick HS : Cherry Glossy Lips
Lashes: **BD**Beautiful Deluxe



ACCESSORIES

Necklace: <- PoM ->  - Sexy Pearls - Black Pearls - F - (Chest) -Testing-
Rings: Anthem. Victoria rings (gold) complete
Necklace: CONCRETE FLOWERS- WINGED HEART NECKLACE
Ring: DECO Cameo Ring (monkey)
Earrings: Indy&Co.: Maelle
Scarf: {mon tissu} Infinity Scarf / Chest - Cream (tinted)







Please indulge me for a moment with this faux dramatic picture video I made during a stressful conversation with the Parents.

Out with the Cute...in with the Zef

Doing Mom's Blog Challenge.

Check out her Post about the Challenge here. Divine Patterns

Burn This Sucker Down.

Pink's Funhouse

I dance around this empty house
Tear us down, throw you out
Screaming down the halls
Spinning all around and now we fall

Pictures framing up the past
Your taunting smirk behind the glass
This museum full of ash
Once a tickle, now a rash

This used to be a Funhouse
But now it's full of evil clowns
It's time to start the countdown
I'm gonna burn it down, down, down
I'm gonna burn it down

9, 8, 7, 6, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1, fun

Echoes knocking on locked doors
All the laughter from before
I'd rather live out on the street
Than in this haunted memory

I've called the movers, called the maids
We'll try to exorcise this place
Drag my mattress to the yard
Crumble, tumble house of cards

This used to be a Funhouse
But now it's full of evil clowns
It's time to start the countdown
I'm gonna burn it down, down, down

This used to be a Funhouse
[ From: http://www.elyrics.net/read/p/pink-lyrics/funhouse-lyrics.html ]
But now it's full of evil clowns
It's time to start the countdown
I'm gonna burn it down, down, down
I'm gonna burn it down

9, 8, 7, 6, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1, fun

I'm crawling through the doggy door
My key don't fit my life no more
I'll change the drapes, I'll break the plates
I'll find a new place, burn this fucker down

Do, do, do, do, do, do, do
Do, do, do, do, do, do, do
Do, do, do, do, do, do, do
Do, do, do, do, da, da, da, da

Do, do, do, do, do, do, do
(9, 8)
Do, do, do, do, do, do, do
(7, 6)
Do, do, do, do, do, do, do
(5, 4, 3)
Do, do, do, do, do, do, do
(2, 1)

This used to be a Funhouse
But now it's full of evil clowns
It's time to start the countdown
I'm gonna burn it down, down, down

This used to be a Funhouse
But now it's full of evil clowns
It's time to start the countdown
I'm gonna burn it down, down, down
I'm gonna burn it down

Don't be a #Hashtag#

OFF WITH HER HEAD!

 I told myself that I wasn't going to blog till AberMatchy was up. So that's why its been six weeks or more since my last post.

Many times I have delved into projects in SL and sadly didn't see them through. My fear of failure is small, my fear of success, it's mountain top high. Then again. I am a mountain top water drop. 

My real life family being as successful as they are and knowing that blood doesn't run through my own veins. Has cause me to hold back. My dreams were never to own a business or make CEO. To be honest. When I was a little kid. I wanted to make movies, or write screen plays, or be a cartoonist.  I spent my time drawing funny cartoons of  friends and teachers. 

One night when I was staying with my bio mom for the summer. Her new neighbor knocked on the door asking to borrow a couple of eggs. My bio mom was gone and I had some friends over. And yes we were getting stonned. I gave her a couple of eggs. She was nice, said thank you and left. My friends and I started hatching this plan where we would paint another egg with a scary face and place it on her door knob. (don't judge we were high) I guess it broke that morning. I never seen the mess or egg. I did get a note on  my front door saying whoever painted the egg was really good. Which for some reason prompted me to write morbid tales to the new neighbor and stuffed them in her door. She would read them and would write me back asking for more. 

She and I became good friends. She talked to me like I was her equal. We talked about art, movies, music. She had been places. Done things. She was and still is hippy esque. I could be me around her. I could like "weird" music. She would give me books to read that if my mother knew I was reading them. She's sick the hounds on my new friend. She let me sit in her air conditioned apartment, get high and draw. She'd hang stuff up I drew. She always had cute guys over. They would flirt with me like I was her age. It was really a turning point in my life.

Is this story becoming a lifetime movie script? I can't tell. 

I'm letting my guard down slowly. I've met some really amazing people, who really just want to have fun and laugh. Be happy and form good solid bonds. They make me feel like if I fail or succeed that I'm going to be ok. And the way they feel about me isn't going to change.
 

So I've opened AberMatchy. It's a one on one Matchmaking service.  Here's the website. 

http://abermatchy.webs.com/
 

If you or your friends are single in sl. Please feel free to fill out a form or IM me. Consultation is free.  It's a very inexpensive service. I already have a decent success rate.

 The Fretwerk's Christmas party was really fun. We drew names for present giving.  Aunt Saphy got my name and she gave me this great hud that fixes your eyes and lets you control other peoples eyes as well. She also gave me a plush Cow chair..I think it has magical powers. Every time I sit in it I get sleepy in rl. 

Running Lady had a Christmas Party.  It was really fun.  Since I don't have a boyfriend.  Mom made Sachy go with me. lol.  Poor Sachy.  He was nice enough to dance with me.

GameShack is where AberMatchy's office resides. There are tons of games and byngo. If you haven't played byngo. You should. It's really fun.

My sl dad Miketh, is a a big New Orleans Saints fan.  Drew Brees broke Dan Marino's 27 year-old record for most passing yards in one season. To commemorate the day. We took a picture.

I've already got a few clients at AberMatchy. Some have went on dates already. I'm pretty excited that I can be a conduit for others to connect. I kinda think that might be the reason I exist. Oh that got me teary eyes. I'm a dork.

The robit and a dear friend of his Burke had a very interesting idea to raise money for relay for life. (It makes for a great gift for your valentine...or your secret crush *wink*) at 49 L and trans, its a steal and your giving to charity.

Go here to check out the AvaHeart

There is something about short shorts and high heels I love. I find legs sexy. And I don't think you have to have some stereotypical "slut-wear" to be sexy. Unless you are going for the lulz effect. Humor is sexy in my book.

Hair: Truth Luana Light blond
Lipstick: L.Fauna Red 1
Nails: SexyMama -Geek and Freak
Shirt: Paperbag. Yo MTV Raps (Crop)
Shorts: Nemesis-Lana shorts bamboo
Shoes: HOC Platform Pumps

I want to give thanks to my Mom, Dad and Brother. Cady Miketh and Sachy Fretwerk. For helping get AberMatchy up and going. To my extended family for believing in me. To my friends like Seeley who want to best for everyone.


      ♥
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